Renting
an Apartment: Finding a Roommate
and Splitting the Bills
If you can handle living with another person, you
can greatly reduce your living expenses
by getting a roommate. Half of the rent of a two-bedroom
apartment
is usually cheaper than the full
rent of a one-bedroom or even studio apartment.
Utilities can also be
cut in half and, depending on how
well you get along, you can also split groceries.
Where to find a roommate
Don't immediately ask your best friend
to room with you. Best friends
don't always make best roommates. Before agreeing
to share a living
space with someone, think of what
bothers you the most about that person. Now multiply
that
by 100. If you can deal with that,
then you might be able to live with him or her.
If you don't know anyone you think
you can live with, you can look in
the classified ads. There are usually
ads for "Roommate
Wanted." If
that doesn't work, place an ad yourself.
Living with a stranger can be an
intimidating thought.
But you may not put the same requirements
on a stranger as you would a close
friend. You can live separate
lives and not annoy each other. It's
very difficult to do that with
someone you are already friends
with.
Setting ground rules
An important part of building a
successful roommate relationship
is setting up the ground rules of the apartment.
What is acceptable to each of
you and what is not? Are there
things that bother you, times
you need the apartment
to
be quiet or
any other issues that need to be
addressed?
Stay flexible. Living
with a roommate can be challenging.
But learning to open up and accept other people
is essential to living happily
in your current situation. |